Du'a when looking in the mirror
Many families say “Allahumma anta hassanta khalqi fa-hassin khuluqi” at the mirror — thanking Allah for how He made us and asking Him to make our manners beautiful too.
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اللَّهُمَّ أَنْتَ حَسَّنْتَ خَلْقِي فَحَسِّنْ خُلُقِي
Allahumma anta hassanta khalqi fa-hassin khuluqi
“O Allah, You have made my body beautiful, so make my manners beautiful too.”
What it means
“Allah, You made me lovely on the outside — please help me be lovely on the inside too.”
When we say it
Many families say it when they look in the mirror. It's a lovely du'a for any time.
How to teach it in 3 steps
Step 1: Stick a small card next to the mirror where your child brushes their teeth or hair.
Step 2: Point out the two words that sound alike — “khalqi” (how I look) and “khuluqi” (how I behave).
Step 3: After saying it, name one kind thing they will do today.
Questions parents ask
Is this only for the mirror?
No. It's a general du'a the Prophet ﷺ used to make, asking for good character. The reports that tie it to the mirror are weak, so we treat the mirror as a helpful family habit, not a rule.
I've seen “Allahumma kama hassanta khalqi…”. Which is right?
The du'a is reported in a few slightly different wordings — with “anta”, with “kama” (“just as”), or with neither. They mean the same, so pick one and keep it the same at home.
How do I explain “good manners” to a 3-year-old?
Keep it concrete: kind words, gentle hands, sharing and saying sorry. Ask, “What's one kind thing you can do today?”
Sources: Musnad Ahmad and Sahih Ibn Hibban (narrated by Ibn Mas'ud and 'A'ishah, in slightly different wordings)
Families and madhhabs differ on some details — ask your teacher.
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